We all agree that bullying is bad, yes? I think most adults would agree, at least in theory, that we should treat people with kindness and not with cruelty. But that doesn’t change the fact that bullying happens every day in all walks of life. Schools, for example, are rife with it. And that’s because a lot of children are still learning crucial skills like empathy, humility, and basic human decency.
When parents catch their own kids being bullies, they usually go down one of two different roads. They may refuse to believe that it’s true. My child would never! There must be some kind of misunderstanding! This opens the door for the behavior to continue. On the other hand, other well-meaning parents may bring the hammer down. Yelling, punishments, you name it. It’s preferable to ignoring the problem, that’s for sure, but it may still miss the mark in terms of teaching a lasting lesson.
A TikTok user, Steph, recently shared her own story of being a former bully, and the exceptional job her mother did handling it when she found out.
There are tons of reasons why people bully others, but it’s never a good thing.
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