Parents are people, too. Whether they subscribe to “gentle parenting” ideas or a more old-school approach, the truth is that they’re just doing their best. Sometimes they get it right, sometimes they make mistakes, and quite often, it’s hard for anyone to tell whether they’re doing a good job until years later.
Heidi Johnson’s son was 13, deeply in adolescence, and in that stage where he’d frequently lash out and defy her at every turn. In one such instance, he stubbornly told her he shouldn’t have to deal with her rules and should be independent. So she wrote a strict but loving “Mom’s not a fool” letter. In the letter, she wrote that because he bragged about making money, he can buy back all of the things that she had purchased for him in the past and that he would also have to pay rent.
Teaching teenagers about real-life consequences isn’t easy. Photo by Norbert Kundrak on Unsplash
“Dear Aaron,
